So as usual, I go into the Yahoo! search engine to do my day to day research on random stuff, and as usual, I found yet another interesting article. This one was entitled "Why Beautiful Women Marry Less Attractive Men". Needless to say, this caught MY attention.
Apparently, men married to better looking women tend to be more supportive and positive towards the marriage and their every day lives. The reasoning behind this, researchers have found, is that women place more importance on having a supportive husband whereas men care more about beauty…Isn’t this absolutely ridiculous?!
You mean to tell me that men do not get over this non-sense after high school? Okay, I definitely understand that being attracted to you partner (at least a little) is necessary, however, this should not in ANY WAY, SHAPE, OR FORM be taken to mean that the man can do as he pleases because he can find a better looking woman. Remember, just because she looks better does not mean she IS better, and more likely than not, she wont be. Obviously, if you are with your "not as beautiful as can be" girlfriend, its because you saw something special in her, something above and beyond the "looks", and something that will be there fifty years from now, when you yourself are old, saggy and grumpy!
According to researchers, certain features meet the “universal standard of beauty”, which include “large eyes, baby face features, symmetric faces, and specific waist-hip ratios”.
The report goes on to say that two good looking people can get together and have a great relationship, however, if a better looking man marries a better looking woman, the relationship will not work out as well because he will always know that because he is better looking, he has the potential to get, if he wanted, a better looking woman. For this reason, he wouldn't be as supportive of her or as caring. For example, in a stressful situation, instead of being what they call "a positive husband", and encouraging her and being there for her, he would be a "negative husband", and tell her what she is doing wrong and reprimand her for it.
However, if the woman is better looking, given that men pay so much attention to beauty, they wouldn't want to lose the woman, and therefore would give more attention and better care to her.
This, to me, is still unbelievable, that men could be so shallow as to support more their significant other based on looks. Of course, their is always an exception, and man are not all the same....but unfortunately, I do see how this can make sense.
My advice to all women; BE CONFIDENT WITH YOURSELF AND THE WAY YOU LOOK....if he mistreats you, then leave him, hes not worth it anyways. Easier said than done...I know, but you know what, at the end of the day, he'll end up with some top-of-the-line beauty queen/model chick that will make him feel like crap and dump him eventually...and that'll be your revenge! :)
Apparently, men married to better looking women tend to be more supportive and positive towards the marriage and their every day lives. The reasoning behind this, researchers have found, is that women place more importance on having a supportive husband whereas men care more about beauty…Isn’t this absolutely ridiculous?!
You mean to tell me that men do not get over this non-sense after high school? Okay, I definitely understand that being attracted to you partner (at least a little) is necessary, however, this should not in ANY WAY, SHAPE, OR FORM be taken to mean that the man can do as he pleases because he can find a better looking woman. Remember, just because she looks better does not mean she IS better, and more likely than not, she wont be. Obviously, if you are with your "not as beautiful as can be" girlfriend, its because you saw something special in her, something above and beyond the "looks", and something that will be there fifty years from now, when you yourself are old, saggy and grumpy!
According to researchers, certain features meet the “universal standard of beauty”, which include “large eyes, baby face features, symmetric faces, and specific waist-hip ratios”.
The report goes on to say that two good looking people can get together and have a great relationship, however, if a better looking man marries a better looking woman, the relationship will not work out as well because he will always know that because he is better looking, he has the potential to get, if he wanted, a better looking woman. For this reason, he wouldn't be as supportive of her or as caring. For example, in a stressful situation, instead of being what they call "a positive husband", and encouraging her and being there for her, he would be a "negative husband", and tell her what she is doing wrong and reprimand her for it.
However, if the woman is better looking, given that men pay so much attention to beauty, they wouldn't want to lose the woman, and therefore would give more attention and better care to her.
This, to me, is still unbelievable, that men could be so shallow as to support more their significant other based on looks. Of course, their is always an exception, and man are not all the same....but unfortunately, I do see how this can make sense.
My advice to all women; BE CONFIDENT WITH YOURSELF AND THE WAY YOU LOOK....if he mistreats you, then leave him, hes not worth it anyways. Easier said than done...I know, but you know what, at the end of the day, he'll end up with some top-of-the-line beauty queen/model chick that will make him feel like crap and dump him eventually...and that'll be your revenge! :)
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In my own opinion, I think these women marry the ugly men because the ugly men probably make a lot of money and those women just want to be rich.
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